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IX Web Hosting looks good with the low price tag.
1-How much does it cost to use asp hosting with sql server 2008?
--It looks like with 36 month plan, they charge around 10$ /month at IX web hosting.
I will look into more details about this...Let me know your favorite Hosting provider for Windows!!!
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